Continue2Connect:

Follow-up program for the "Getting The Love You Want" weekend couples workshop

Week 3:   Mike and Mary remove negativity

Don't forget to visit us next week for "Why mirror?"

MAKE SURE YOUR VOLUME IS TURNED UP

NOTE THIS IS A DEMO VERSION - THE VOICES ARE SYNTHESISED AND WILL BE REPLACED WITH REAL VOICES

Appreciation Dialogue

Sender:  One thing I appreciate that you did last week was......

Receiver:  I hear you say...   Did I get it?  Is there more?

Switch roles

Dialogue Exercise

After listening to Mike and Mary, try a dialogue using these sentence stems.  Each of you would start a sentence beginning with the following.  The other partner should mirror back, check to see if your mirror was accurate, and ask "Is there more".  Watch Mary and Mike demonstrate this on the last slide.

"A way I find myself to be critical or negative is...."

"How I plan to remove that negativity is...."

"Ways I would express what I feel instead are..."