Connect with yourself

One of the most exciting relationships you will ever have is with yourself.  Why is it you are drawn to particular people?  Why do you love some experiences, but dread others?

Learning more about yourself helps you get much more out of your relationships with others too.  Through Imago you can even learn more about how to make new relationships more successful, and even how to recognize early on those romances which always seem to break your heart.

An Imago Keeping The Love You Find workshop is a great first step.  Visit our workshops page and search for workshops for singles.  Even if you are in a relationship, we recommend this workshop as an incredible voyage of self-discovery.

We have 1,000 Certified Imago Therapists who can use the teachings of Imago to help you on your personal voyage.

"Keeping The Love You Find" by Harville Hendrix, PhD is a companion volume to the Imago couples book "Getting The Love You Want", and is a great introduction to Imago self-growth for individuals, whether you are in a relationship or not.

Even when life feels great  there are times when things that people say can feel deeply wounding, and arouse feelings of rage or sadness.  Or there are just times when we might just not like ourselves, perhaps feeling lonely, unfulfilled, and unlovely.  What's going on?

Imago Relationship theory explains why these feelings originate from our past experiences, and provides some practical and effective approaches to living your life in a more positive and connected way.  Using insights from brain studies and other major psychological research, we can help you look at the story of your life in a fresh way.

Exploring, understanding, and appreciating yourself, and how you relate to friends and family can become the most joyous experience of your life, and a path to lasting fulfillment.

The Imago Dialogue is a simple, respectful, and effective way to talk with your partner about the things that really matter.

In Imago, there's no blame, shame, or criticism. 

Instead, a stronger connection comes though attentive listening and being deeply heard in an emotionally safe environment.  Then surprising answers to age-old conflicts can emerge.

A world-leading approach

Imago is based on the best-selling book "Getting The Love You Want", by Harville Hendrix, PhD who co-founded Imago Relationships International together with his partner, Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD.

Imago weaves together leading psychological theories and practical observations on the experience of love, offering an approach to relationships that is both compelling and easy to understand.